Humanising Social Media in the AI Era

Last Updated: 20 October 2025

If every brand can automate content, what makes yours worth following? In 2025, generative AI is everywhere. A 2024 global survey showcased that nearly 42% of marketers use AI tools daily or weekly to help them write and generate content. This efficiency flood means everyone can churn out polished updates at scale. The paradox is that AI isn’t the enemy; impersonal content is. When every caption starts to feel auto-generated, brands risk blending into a robotic blur. The winners in this new landscape will be those who stay unmistakably human.

In this article, we’ll explore how to build a social media presence that feels real and relatable even with AI working behind the scenes.

The State of Social Media in 2025

Social media marketing has been transformed by a wave of AI tools like ChatGPT, Jasper, and Meta’s AI Studio. These “social media AI” content generators enable marketers to create posts in seconds across all platforms. The upside? Unprecedented efficiency. Hootsuite showed that 83% of marketers used generative AI to produce far more content than before, and AI-powered teams maintain that always-on posting (some managing up to 72 posts per week) helps to keep feeds constantly updated. In short, AI has made it easy to never run out of content.

But this scale comes at a cost. Sameness and lost personality are creeping in. When dozens of brands use the same algorithms, their posts start to sound alike, and audiences have noticed. In fact, platforms have begun flagging and demonetising low-quality, mass-produced posts (derisively dubbed “AI slop”) because they degrade platform quality. Automated efficiency without a human touch can erode trust and authenticity.

The question for 2025 isn’t if we should use AI in social media; it’s about how we use it without losing our humanity. If everyone’s feed is run by algorithms, how do you ensure your brand still feels human and worth engaging with?

Why Authenticity Wins

In the attention economy, real human connection beats sheer content volume. While AI can pump out posts, it can’t forge genuine relationships. Audiences today crave authenticity. They follow brands that sound human, are relatable, and are true to their values. Emotional trust is a hard-earned currency and authentic brands trade in it.

When your social content feels real (not just another generic output), you build equity that AI can’t fake. Followers become fans, and fans become advocates. Research shows that 81% of consumers are more likely to give their business to brands that build authentic connections with them. In other words, keeping it real pays off in loyalty and word-of-mouth. After all, people follow people, not processes or bots. An AI might get your post seen, but only authenticity will get your audience to care and stick around.

Where AI Fits In

Here’s the good news: AI isn’t here to replace human creativity. It’s here to augment it. Think of AI as an assistant, not a creative director. It excels at handling the heavy lifting of data and repetition, freeing your team to focus on the human elements. For example, AI can analyse your past posts and provide insights on the best times to publish and which topics get traction. It can suggest captions, generate relevant hashtags, or even draft responses to frequently asked questions. In fact, modern social media AI tools can adapt to your brand voice and optimise posting schedules based on engagement patterns. These are tasks that would take a human hours of number-crunching.

But crucially, you provide the heart. Use AI to brainstorm ideas or create first drafts, then inject your brand’s personality into the final content. This “human-in-the-loop” approach means every automated output is reviewed, refined, or sometimes outright rewritten by a human who knows the audience. AI can offer 100 suggestions, but you choose which one feels right. As one bold marketing quip puts it: AI won’t replace creative marketers, but it will expose the brands that never had creativity to begin with. In short, AI can handle speed and scale, but you must handle soul and substance.

So, how do we actually do that? Let’s look at concrete strategies to humanise your social media without losing the efficiency that AI provides.

Strategies to Humanise Social Media in the AI Era

Lead with Storytelling

Facts tell, but stories sell. Rather than posting a bland AI-generated caption, turn it into a narrative that reveals some emotion, purpose or personality. For example, if AI drafts a post about a product feature, add a short story of how a real customer used that product to solve a problem or a behind-the-scenes anecdote from your team. Stories make your brand relatable and memorable. Use AI for the outline, but let your human experience shape the story’s voice.

Encourage Community Over Broadcasting

Shift from “posting at” your audience to participating with your audience. Social media without AI involves a lot of one-way broadcasting. Encourage user-generated content (UGC) and genuine interactions. Prompt your followers to share their experiences, and highlight or repost their best content. People trust people more than brands, and 59% of consumers say UGC is the most authentic content they see. So celebrate your community’s voices. Another key point is to be responsive. When someone comments or asks a question, reply in a human, non-scripted way (even if an AI tool helped draft it). By fostering dialogue, you show there’s a real person behind the logo who cares.

Keep the Brand Voice Consistent and Human

AI can mimic a style, but it’s up to you to define what your brand’s voice is and to ensure it stays warm and human. Create an AI content style guide that goes beyond keywords to include tone, humour, and empathy guidelines. For instance, set rules like “we use a friendly, conversational tone” or “we always acknowledge customer emotions in replies.” Whenever you have AI generating copy, have a human edit it for emotional nuance and authenticity before it goes live. This human review step catches the subtle stuff (does this joke actually land? Does this response sound empathetic or cold?). Consistency in voice builds trust, but only if that voice feels like a person.

Use AI for Insight, Not Identity

Leverage AI’s strengths in data and analysis to inform your strategy, but don’t let it define your brand identity. Let AI sift through engagement analytics, find trends in what content works, or even suggest content ideas you might have missed. Use those insights to make strategic decisions like posting more of what your audience finds valuable. However, when it comes to creativity and messaging, keep a human in the driver’s seat. Your brand identity – the stories you tell, the values you express, the stand you take on issues – should come from your team’s understanding of your customers and culture. AI can tell you what topics are trending; it’s up to you to decide how your brand talks about them in a genuine way.

Prioritise Real Faces and Voices

In an era of chatbots and deepfakes, putting real humans front and centre is a powerful differentiator. Whenever possible, showcase people instead of just products or polished graphics. Feature your team members in posts, go live with your CEO or employees, share customer testimonial videos, and use real photos of real customers (with permission). Audiences naturally connect with human faces. Studies found that social posts with actual human faces get 38% more likes and 32% more comments on average than those without. It’s proof that people crave human connection online. So, do more “meet the team” spotlights, behind-the-scenes peeks, and candid moments. By letting your people and customers do the talking, your brand becomes more personable and trustworthy.

Measuring What Matters

As you re-focus on human connections, you’ll want to adjust how you measure success. It’s time to move beyond vanity metrics like raw follower counts, reach, or impression numbers that don’t tell the whole story. Instead, track the metrics that signal real engagement and community building:

Quality of engagement: Are you getting meaningful comments and conversations on your posts (as opposed to just likes or one-word replies)? A dozen thoughtful comments can be more valuable than 100 passive likes, because they show people truly care and interact.
Community growth and advocacy: Measure things like the growth of your groups or online communities, the number of user-generated posts about your brand, or referral traffic from loyal fans. These indicate you’re building an engaged community, not just a spectator crowd.
Sentiment and trust: Use social listening or sentiment analysis to gauge how people feel about your brand over time. Are the mentions and discussions trending positively, indicating trust? For example, an increase in positive mentions or customer testimonials signals a healthy brand-community relationship.
Retention and loyalty: Look at customer retention rates or repeat engagement from the same followers. If your social media efforts are truly humanising your brand, you should see stronger loyalty.

By prioritising these deeper metrics, you redefine “performance” to mean lasting connection. A post that inspires 10 customers to write paragraphs of feedback or share their stories is now more valuable than one that gets 1,000 quick views but no one remembers. In an AI-saturated feed, trust and community are the new North Star metrics.

The Takeaway

Automation can scale your content, but it cannot replace your empathy, creativity, or authenticity. The future of social media marketing isn’t about who can pump out the most AI-generated posts; it’s about who can form real connections. Brands that blend AI efficiency with a human touch will earn lasting loyalty, while those who sound like robots will get tuned out. Remember that the goal isn’t to beat the algorithm, it’s to win the audience. Use AI to save time and glean insights, but always infuse your social presence with personality, storytelling, and genuine interaction.

The bottom line is that the brands that will thrive on social media are those that automate without losing their soul. If your brand’s feed has started to feel more robotic than human, it’s time to recalibrate and put the people back into the equation.

Are you ready to make your social strategy feel more human? At Darksky Digital, we help brands find the perfect balance between AI efficiency and genuine connection. Let’s build a social presence that scales with technology but feels unmistakably human.

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Written By Laila Soules

Laila Soules is the visionary Founder and CEO of Darksky Digital, a Growth & Performance Marketing Agency based in South Africa. With a rich background in digital marketing, Laila has been instrumental in driving business growth through innovative strategies and data-driven solutions.

Under her leadership, Darksky Digital has emerged as a trusted partner for businesses seeking to enhance their online presence and achieve measurable results. Her expertise spans various facets of digital marketing, including search engine optimization (SEO), pay-per-click advertising (PPC), social media marketing, and content strategy.

Her strategic insights and hands-on approach have consistently delivered exceptional outcomes for clients across diverse sectors. Beyond her professional endeavors, Laila is dedicated to mentoring aspiring marketers and contributing to the growth of the digital marketing ecosystem in South Africa.